{"id":253,"date":"2006-07-25T16:07:23","date_gmt":"2006-07-25T08:07:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blackiris.fakedevil.com\/wp\/?p=253"},"modified":"2006-07-25T16:08:19","modified_gmt":"2006-07-25T08:08:19","slug":"do-i-really-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/?p=253","title":{"rendered":"do i really care?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>was actually in a very good mood cos someone made my day. BUT now my fren is irritating me cos of a meet-up we&#8217;re supposed to hv. cos with us going to Denmark and we haven&#8217;t seen her for so long due to MT and won&#8217;t see her until godknowswhen next year, so she wanna meet up.<\/p>\n<p>long time ago when she proposed the idea i was quite enthu. like haven&#8217;t seen her for so long anw. but now i&#8217;m juz irritated. like i dun blardy care whether i see u or not lah. it&#8217;s so damn hard to coordinate an outing for 5 BUSY ppl. den becos now u free u decide to change date. but ppl not free den u wanna insist on meeting cos u can join ppl on their <em>other<\/em> pre-arranged meeting to watch a movie.  den becos u wanan change date,  so the <em>other<\/em> pre-arranged meeting to watch a movie might be cancelled bcos the person now seems to be not so enthu to go out with <strong>ME<\/strong> alrdy.  thanks a lot.<\/p>\n<p>i have no time cos i&#8217;m flying off soon and i have countless other ppl to meet before i leave.  then bcos u free u juz anyhow change everythin and wreck up all my other appointments. <\/p>\n<p>there are some ppl dat i die die muz meet before i leave either bcos they are good frens or bcos i won&#8217;t see them till June next yr. i don&#8217;t really care whether i meet u or not now cos i&#8217;m sure i can meet up with u earli nxt year when i come back. so does it really matter? <\/p>\n<p>ok it&#8217;s just not me to be lydat cos i really aprpeciate all the friends i have and i like meeting up with them. but nowadays, when i get into my moods, some ppl u juz gotta let go. no point tryin so hard to meet up or maintain a r\/s cos there&#8217;s just not enuf time. if u&#8217;re impt enuf i will mk time for u, but if ur&#8217;e not then too bad. as we all get busier with our own stuff, where have so much time to meet up so often anw rite? i think it&#8217;s more impt to spend more time and effort to maintain a good close r\/se with ppl dat u are closer to, your inner circle. rather then dividing out your time and effort betwn those that u are close to, and those that you are not so close to in your outer circle. <\/p>\n<p>maybe i&#8217;m just old. maybe i&#8217;m just PMS-ing. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>was actually in a very good mood cos someone made my day. BUT now my fren is irritating me cos of a meet-up we&#8217;re supposed to hv. cos with us going to Denmark and we haven&#8217;t seen her for so long due to MT and won&#8217;t see her until godknowswhen next year, so she wanna [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/253"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=253"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/253\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=253"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=253"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/caryn.6eptember.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=253"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}